Kourtney Kardashian has shared honest details about her marriage to Travis Barker, admitting that keeping up with him can be difficult. During a recent episode of Hulu’s The Kardashians, Kourtney spoke about how their different personalities create challenges in their relationship.
“Travis’ pace of life is pretty fast. I would say he tries to squeeze in as much as he can into a day,” Kourtney said in a confessional interview. Kourtney prefers a slower pace and enjoys spending more time at home. “So I am balancing me trying to slow all of my life down, mixed with doing all the things that he wants to do,” she explained.
She also mentioned that she and Travis both want to make each other happy, but their differences sometimes create difficulties. “I think we both just wanna make each other happy, but right now, I think he’s a little bit more impulsive [whereas] I’m really happy and comfortable at home,” she said.
The episode featured Kourtney and Travis attending the first-ever Run Travis Run 5K event in Los Angeles. Later that day, Travis performed at a sold-out Blink-182 concert at SoFi Stadium.
Kourtney and Travis got married in May 2022 and had their first child together in November 2023. The couple has always shown love and affection when seen in public, but Kourtney acknowledged that their marriage requires effort.
As a mother of four, Kourtney has a busy life. She shares Mason, Penelope, and Reign with her ex-partner Scott Disick and recently welcomed her son Rocky with Travis. Meanwhile, Travis has three children—Landon, Alabama, and stepdaughter Atiana—from previous relationships.
Juggling a blended family and a high-energy husband is a challenge, but Kourtney is determined to make it work. A source revealed that their relationship has changed since Rocky was born. “The attraction between them is still there, but they’re not packing on the PDA as much as before, and it’s been a tough adjustment for Travis,” the source said.
Travis reportedly needs a lot of reassurance in the relationship. “He can be quite needy and insecure with Kourtney,” the source added. “He gets a lot of reassurance from their intimate moments, but now that Kourtney’s got a new baby, she simply can’t keep up with his energy.”
Kourtney is exhausted from taking care of Rocky, which has affected her level of affection. “She’s still just as into him, but she’d rather cuddle a lot of the time than go at it like rabbits, and that’s been tough for Travis to understand,” the source shared.
Kourtney is also dealing with stress from her older son, Mason, choosing to live with his father, Scott Disick. “She tries to cover it up, but she’s heartbroken over it and blaming herself,” the insider revealed. “And that’s not exactly putting her in the mood for intimacy.”
During the Kardashians episode, Kourtney reflected on the importance of mutual support. “It is really important to both of us that we show up for each other and that we can support each other,” she said. “I know it means a lot to him, and I know it means a lot to me when he’s there for me. It’s everything to have that.”
Kourtney and Travis continue to work on blending their families and making their marriage work. “Travis and I have really been taking our time with figuring out where it makes sense for us to live together because the kids are all so comfortable in their spaces,” Kourtney said. “It feels like we kind of figured out a plan for now.”
Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker (Credit: Getty Image)Since welcoming their son, Rocky Thirteen Barker, in November 2023, Kourtney and Travis have had to navigate the natural shifts that come with being new parents. A source close to the couple revealed that while their bond remains strong, the dynamic between them has evolved.
“Travis is used to being the center of Kourtney’s world, and now that she’s prioritizing their newborn, he’s had to adjust,” the insider shared. “He loves being a dad, but he also craves the same level of attention he used to get from her.”
Kourtney, on the other hand, has been open about embracing motherhood again and cherishing the quieter moments at home. Unlike Travis, who thrives on constant activity—whether it’s touring with Blink-182, working on music, or training for marathons—Kourtney prefers a more low-key lifestyle.
“She’s always been about balance, and right now, her focus is on Rocky and her other kids,” the source added. “That doesn’t mean she loves Travis any less, but her energy is just divided differently.”
The Struggles of a Blended Family
Another layer of complexity in their relationship is managing their blended family. Kourtney shares three children—Mason, Penelope, and Reign—with her ex, Scott Disick, while Travis has two children, Landon and Alabama, with his ex-wife, Shanna Moakler, as well as a stepdaughter, Atiana. Finding a living situation that works for everyone has been a priority for the couple.
In a recent episode of The Kardashians, Kourtney explained that they’ve been intentional about merging their households at a pace that feels comfortable for the kids. “We don’t want to disrupt their routines too much,” she said. “Travis and I have been patient, making sure the transition feels natural for everyone.”
Despite their efforts, there have been emotional hurdles, particularly with Kourtney’s eldest son, Mason, choosing to live primarily with Scott. “That’s been really hard for her,” a friend of the family shared. “She’s trying to stay strong, but it’s been an emotional adjustment.”
Travis’ Need for Reassurance
Those close to the couple have also noted that Travis, despite his rockstar persona, can be surprisingly vulnerable in the relationship. “He wears his heart on his sleeve with Kourtney,” the source revealed. “He needs a lot of reassurance, especially now that her attention is split between him, the baby, and her other kids.”
Travis has been open about his past struggles, including his near-fatal plane crash in 2008 and his battles with anxiety and OCD. His relationship with Kourtney has been a source of stability for him, which is why any shift in their dynamic can feel unsettling. “He’s working on being more understanding,” the insider added. “But it’s a learning process for both of them.”
Finding Their New Normal
Despite the challenges, Kourtney and Travis remain committed to making their marriage work. A key factor in their relationship has always been their willingness to support each other’s passions—whether it’s Kourtney cheering Travis on at his concerts or Travis embracing her wellness-focused lifestyle.
“We’re figuring it out day by day,” Kourtney said in a recent interview. “Marriage isn’t always easy, but when you love someone, you put in the work.” Travis echoed her sentiments in a social media post, writing, “Love isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up, even on the hard days.”
As they continue to navigate parenthood, career demands, and family logistics, one thing is clear: Kourtney and Travis are determined to grow together rather than apart. And while their love story may not always be as fiery and PDA-filled as it once was, the foundation they’re building now—rooted in patience, compromise, and mutual respect—might just be the key to making their marriage last.